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AngelinaS
07-11-2006, 01:38 PM
I don't normally post personal things like this on message boards, but digichick is my second home, and I just feel at a loss. I want to do something, and asking for prayers is the only thing I can think of to do right now that I think will be of any real help.

I just got a phone call from my mom at 7:30 this morning. My sister-in-law's sister's son (did that make sense to you)? Was killed in an accident yesterday. It's unbelievably horrible. My sil and her sister were standing right there about a hundred yards away. Michelle's sixteen year old son (the brother of the boy killed) was driving. They were on the dirt road near my brother's house. He swerved to miss a deer, the truck hit an embankment and flipped. Hunter was thrown out of the truck. He wasn't wearing his seatbelt. They didn't think he needed it going fifteen miles an hour on a dirt road, I guess. He was nine. We just attended his birthday party in May. I feel like I'm in a fog. I keep going back and forth between feeling overwhelmed with emotion and feeling like a zombie. Three of the kids witnessed the accident, and the sixteen year old has been talking about killing himself because he blames himself. They had to take him to the doctor for some medication.

It took ten minutes for the ambulance to get there. Nicki, my sil, was sitting in the middle of the road holding him the whole time. The FREAKING TOW TRUCK arrived five minutes before the ambulance did! WTF! He was still conscious and alive when Nicki got to him. He died before the ambulance arrived. Every time I picture Hunter, I picture him having a water balloon fight with my kids just two months ago. Such a good, sweet, funny, smart boy. I just don't know how his family is going to cope with this. It's just too much to bear.

If you could send up some prayers for his family, I would much appreciate it.

Sorry to be such a downer. Just such a terrible, terrible, difficult day.

Ange

Kathy Moore
07-11-2006, 01:40 PM
Oh, my gosh, sweetie, I can't even imagine. My thoughts and prayers will be with this family...

Vania16
07-11-2006, 01:43 PM
Oh Ange, I am so, so sorry. I will be praying for you and the whole family.

~Shawna~
07-11-2006, 01:44 PM
Oh my gosh Angelina that is just awful. I will definitely keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers. {{Hugs}}

tamra
07-11-2006, 01:45 PM
OMG that is terrible. I can't even imagine... I know that's what has already been said, but what else can you say. That is horrible and I will definetly be praying for the family.

nbeaudreau
07-11-2006, 01:48 PM
What a horrible thing to go through. My heart goes out to your SIL. I'm so very sorry.... your family will be in my prayers.

Rynonut Mom
07-11-2006, 02:01 PM
Angelina - my heart just breaks for you and your family - how awful! Hugs and prayers beiing sent your way!

Nonnie917
07-11-2006, 02:03 PM
I am so srry Angelia. Of course we will be praying for you. We have prayer service at our church tonight. I will ask them to pray too. I am so sorry for you and your family.

aggietha
07-11-2006, 02:04 PM
Ill be saying my prayers for the family, esp the older brother, he needs support and love so he will stop blaming himself. HUgs to them, and you too.

sinead
07-11-2006, 02:08 PM
Oh, Ange! How horrible! It's always harder when there are children involved. And poor sixteen year old...

They'll all be in my prayers. I wish there was something to do for them, but maybe prayers will be the best right now. (((hugs)))

InLoveWithDOTS
07-11-2006, 02:13 PM
I can't imagine the pain you & your family must be in. You will all be in my prayers, may you find peace in the memories.

Rischa
07-11-2006, 02:17 PM
Oh, his poor mother. I'm so very sorry for your loss and for his whole family. I can't imagine anything more horrible for his family. Prayers are most definitely being sent up.

Priscilla
07-11-2006, 02:26 PM
OMG!! This is so sad. My heart goes out to your family. (Distand but they are your family, no matter what!!)

chloe
07-11-2006, 02:30 PM
I feel so sorry for you and Hunter's familly. Lots of hugs and prayers to you all.

busyizzie
07-11-2006, 03:08 PM
((((Ange)))))) I'm so sorry for the loss of this young life. I hate hearing this because it strikes so close to home with having boys that age. I hate that something as simple as the thought of not putting on that seat belt had such an affect upon this family. I'll say prayers for all of you. If you need to chat, you know how to get in touch with me.

Please have peace, as you know, he's in a better place.

Tara18
07-11-2006, 03:09 PM
this brings tears to my eyes. this hits home so hard for me. my heart is aching for their family, and you. :( i'm so sorry.

ChristineS
07-11-2006, 03:46 PM
Lord have mercy on this family. We cry out to you on behalf of all those who are left to deal with this terrible, tragic mess.

Laura_A
07-11-2006, 03:47 PM
This is terribly sad! You and your family are in my thoughts. I've said a prayer for you as well!

AndreaBurns
07-11-2006, 04:08 PM
Oh Ange.....

(((HUGS)))

Iam so so sorry that this has happened. I don't even have the words... I am just so sorry. May God bless his family with peace.

DragonFly
07-11-2006, 04:36 PM
Hugs & Prayers to you and your family....=)

mamakimberly
07-11-2006, 04:45 PM
oh my goodness, how awful.

The family is all in my prayers!

ronee
07-11-2006, 05:00 PM
Lot's of prayers, love and healing energy to you and your family.

leah81
07-11-2006, 05:04 PM
I'm so sorry, I'm crying here with you... we had some pretty bad news in our family too... not this bad, but bad, and I have been in a fog too.. I have been trying to keep myself busy to keep my mind off of things.. anyway, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

~ashleigh
07-11-2006, 07:46 PM
How terribly heartbreaking. I am sorry. I am saying a prayer for your family and for your SILs family.

KimberlyGiarrusso
07-12-2006, 12:40 AM
Oh Hun. I am so sorry. Your family is in my prayers.

MariKoegelenberg
07-12-2006, 05:22 AM
This is just so heartbreaking! You and the family are in my thoughts and we will pray for them. Life is so precious, we must just savour every day we have.

ninascraps
07-12-2006, 07:51 AM
omg, i donīt have any words to say. i cannot imagine.
my prayers are with you

Charla
07-12-2006, 08:52 AM
Oh, Angelina, I'm so sorry. I will be praying for your whole family, especially his brother. That's far too much for a 16-year old to face.

LauraBelle
07-12-2006, 09:16 AM
this is awful :( My thought are with all of you

Jennilyn
07-12-2006, 09:22 AM
That is just heartbreaking Angelina! I am so sorry for their loss. Hunter is in my thoughts, while his family is in my prayers.

Deena
07-12-2006, 09:55 AM
I will keep you and the rest of the family in my prayers!

cpkmelissa
07-12-2006, 10:06 AM
I'm so sorry. Your entire family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Cynnder
07-12-2006, 10:16 AM
omg hugs to your family......life can be SOOO SOOO Cruel sometimes ((HUGS))

AngelinaS
07-12-2006, 10:47 AM
Thank you all for your wonderful words and prayers. Really, I wanted prayers for Hunter's family to work through all of this, but the fact that so many of you have prayed for me, as well, is touching beyond words. And, I have to tell you all that I felt those prayers. Last night as I fell asleep, I was reminded of the analogy of the ship departing one shore and arriving at another. And, where those of us who watch the departing ship cry tears of sadness to say goodbye, those on the other shore shout for joy and welcome. And, as I was falling asleep last night, another thought came to my mind. It was of Hunter being hugged by Jesus. This might not seems so strange, but I have to tell you, that when I have ever tried to imagine the day we would meet, Jesus was always standing back. I have never imagined touching him, as though a person could just never be good enough to touch him. But, I pictured Jesus hugging Hunter and Hunter being so happy. I hope you all don't think this sounds hokey, but it's what your prayers led me to. I believe that it was your prayers that gave me this sense of peace.

And, I can only pray that they are doing the same for Hunter's family.

So, thank you!

mamakimberly
07-12-2006, 10:54 AM
that isn't hokey at all, that is beautiful!!!

ShabbyScrapperMel
07-12-2006, 01:00 PM
:40:

Thank you for sharing your terrible news with us. I will pray for you and your family.

Melanie